You’ve probably heard the saying “Sometimes it might be better to be happy than right.” Yet what if being right is what makes us happy (even when it may make the other unhappy)? One of the most important ingredients in healthy, human relationships is the willingness to compromise and if being right all the time is what makes us happy – well, so much for healthy, happy relationships. The art of compromise is a spiritual practice as well as a strength of character. The unwillingness to compromise is a sign of weakness and often ignorance. Compromising is an “art” rather than an exact science, because it involves much more than logic and reason. Compromise most often demands that we set our emotions and our need to be right aside for the sake of healthy, happy relationships. We’ll examine this art under the microscope of compassion.

At a level of the psyche we call the “unconscious,” we experience life similar to the ways children, poets and “primitives” do; that is a world filled not with “things” or “its,” but with living, animated beings possessing feelings and emotions- an “I-thou” world. At this level, “things” have souls. These kinds of experiences are often deemed irrational, childish and illogical and subsequently repressed in favor of reason. Yet they still live in the depths of our unconscious and influence our lives in powerful ways. We will explore the soul in “things” and how we are moved in ways we are not always aware of.

As Unitarian Universalists we accept a diversity of beliefs when it comes to God (or you may prefer, god, gods, goddess, goddesses) and we even accept unbelief, that is, atheism. In this reflection we will explore the “god” idea and its many and varied implications.

Hoori is the title of an old Japanese myth about a hunter who, in pursuit of a lost fish hook, descends into the depths of the sea and finds a real treasure, the treasure “hard to attain.” This myth from Japan offers a perfect example of the parallelism found in mythologies from around the world. The magic number in this myth and a later myth applied to Christ is the number three (3). We will see how these stories parallel and get at the core message and meaning they reveal.